Pay attention. I am not going to waste space here:We look at one another waiting for one to change the other.
We say to each other and we hear from professionals, that we attract the
people who amplify our dark spots (weaknesses [not pc], faults [oh god], etc).
It goes like: You have chosen a lover who
presses your buttons (best case scenario),
is your opposite,
“knows your shadow side”
has something to teach you (worst case scenario).
We find a person and then we continue to behave the way we always have so that it looks like the other person magically knows what I need to work on, or pushes my …. Really, they are bystanders
while I read the daily news of my life
the way I always have, the way I always will,